Life has few guarantees, but one thing you can count on is change. And for so many of us, the past few months have really put that to the test. Living with uncertainty for a prolonged period can feel like it’s taking a toll and often in ways that we don’t even realize. Last month, we looked at why we’re so resistant to change and how it challenges our sense of control and fear of the unknown. But what does dealing with uncertainty do to our bodies, both physically and mentally? Let’s take a look:
Common Symptoms in the Body
Everyone is different, but here are 3 common ways that uncertainty manifests in the body:
- Muscle tension: Muscle tension is one of the most common physical symptoms since dealing with uncertainty causes the body to be in a continuous state of alertness. This stress can cause headaches, neck and back pain and overall achiness.
- Digestive issues: Digestive problems are another common symptom. Many people experience stomachaches, nausea or changes in appetite when dealing with uncertainty. The stomach is extremely sensitive to stress and anxiety, making it more vulnerable.
- Sleep issues: Sleep disruptions are also common. The constant worry and overthinking that accompany uncertainty can make it difficult to fall asleep or stay asleep. A lack of restful sleep often increases feelings of fatigue, irritability and difficulty concentrating.
Common Mental Impacts
Again, dealing with uncertainty has different impacts on everyone, but here are some common ways that it can affect mental health:
- Increased anxiety and depression: Prolonged periods of uncertainty can lead to increased levels of worry, feelings of frustration and difficulty managing emotions
- Lack of motivation: When you’re faced with so much change and so many questions, it can leave you feeling stuck and like nothing you do will really have an impact. This can make it challenging to start or finish tasks.
- Racing Thoughts: Your mind may race with “what-if” scenarios and potential negative outcomes.
- Irritability and Frustration: Living under a cloud of uncertainty can make you more short tempered, perhaps lashing out at co-workers, your partner or children.
- Restlessness: You might find it difficult to sit still or it may be hard to relax.
- Indecisiveness: You may have difficulty making decisions or feel paralyzed by the fear of making the wrong choice.
Perhaps you read the list and said, “yes, that’s me right now!” Your big question is: what do I do about it? Change and uncertainty aren’t going away, but how you react to it and take care of yourself is within your control. Some options to consider: seek outside resources such as counseling, a community support group, or talking with a good friend or church member. Another option is working with a coach, someone who is trained to help people manage uncertainty.
Leah M Joppy and Associates have coaches that can help you manage many situations. We can provide a fresh perspective, goal setting and accountability to help you achieve sustainable results. We are currently offering 20-minute complimentary exploratory sessions. It’s an ideal time to book an appointment and talk to us about how you can work through uncertainty in your life. You don’t have to go it alone. We have also added 2 new courses. To learn more, call us at 301-670-0051 or email us at leah@lmja.com.
